How does one transition to be a ladyboy?
Society expects that a person’s assigned sex at birth is the determining factor that would dictate how he or she should act. For ladyboys however, they feel that their sex does not conform to their gender identity. Although transitioning from male to female is a difficult and expensive process, a lot of transgender women choose to do it because they believe that the benefits outweigh the risks. For them, living happy and whole in their new and true self is the ultimate goal.
Here are the things necessary for every transgender woman who wants to undergo transition.
Make a firm decision
Transitioning is more of a physical change because the mind is already certain of the gender to which the person identifies. Once completed, the life of a person will totally change so it requires thorough reflection. Keeping a personal journal that outlines your thoughts, goals, and sentiments about transitioning is a big help. Transgender women are also encouraged to seek advice from close friends and support groups, if available.
Research
Sexual Reassignment Surgery (SRS), Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT), Voice Change Therapy (VCT), breast implants, and facial surgery are some of the available methods for transitioning from male to female. There is no single way in which a person can transition but the goal is to alter the physical appearance and composition of the body. Each way can be more complicated and costly than others and the only way to know which method will work is to research.
Thanks to the internet, there are vast amounts of information readily available to help males transition to be a woman. If you have a rough idea what to do, searching for articles and forums and even having a support group can really help. Educating yourself would help you decide what type of transition you want.
Produce the necessary costs
One thing that deters a lot of transgender women to undergo transition is the monetary cost involved. Even the simplest of procedure cost money. Hence, those considering transition should prepare a financial and savings plan to cover all the costs. If insurance or health care plans can cover the procedures involved for the transition, it would be a good option too. Again, research is key.
Meet with a therapist
One transwoman I dated said that finding a therapist made a big impact in her decision to undergo transition. She said that her decision became all the more informed because although she feels and wants to live as a woman, she had the confirmation from a professional that her sex and gender identity does not align. Being honest with yourself and the therapist can produce more accurate results and limit the chances of regret.
Plan your treatment
After considering all the pre-transition requirements, planning the treatment is next. This involves choosing the procedure you want that is within your means because transitioning to be a transwoman takes time. Find the appropriate treatment that will make you content and happy about your body and research about the risks or side effects involved.
Because transitioning from male to female alters the chemical composition of the body, there are some personality changes that others may notice. While undergoing Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT), transgender women may become moody. They may be overly happy, sad, or dramatic; emotions are sometimes amplified. Their sex drive could also be affected and sometimes, they can be overly enthusiastic about it or utterly cold. Knowing when to take medication could also help. Also, transitioning from male to female can have an effect in diet. Some may eat way more or less than what they used to. These impending changes before transition should be communicated to the people involved such as your partner, family, friends, and support group. They would be more understanding that way.
Know your legal options
As transgender women undergo transition, the use of their given name causes anxiety and stress. To alleviate the emotional turmoil associated with their given sex, changing their name legally is also an option. Most transgender women choose a name that reflects their personality and to do so, they seek legal advice. These are the legal costs involved that must be included when planning for transition. Lastly, knowing the laws that protect LGBTQ+ community against discrimination really helps.
If you are dating a ladyboy, it is best to learn how they transitioned so you will be more understanding and knowledgeable when it comes to this concern. There is no right or wrong way to transition, as it is a personal choice. Some go “all in” while others take it one step at a time. No matter what method they choose, I can attest that showing them support is necessary for a lasting relationship with them.